Your Trusted & Discreet Partner in Love

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The most important decision you and your family members make is choosing the right life partner. We help you invest wisely in making the right relationship choice that aligns with your values, lifestyle, interests and family values. Whether it is the first time or a new chapter in your life, we are your trusted partners. Our high-end boutique matchmaking practice provides curated matchmaking, date coaching, and strategic consulting for multigenerational families of wealth.

Wealth management firms kindly refer their clients to us through a personal introduction. We provide exclusive resources to their single clients and adult children to navigate the dating world with ease, creating meaningful connections and fostering lasting relationships.

Family Office Exchange (FOX) Welcomes Boutique Matchmaking as its Selected Partner for Relationship Guidance

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Who We Are

Best executive matchmakers Cassindy Chao and Shannon Lundgren.
Best executive matchmakers Cassindy Chao and Shannon Lundgren.
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Best executive matchmakers Cassindy Chao and Shannon Lundgren.

With the benefit of expertise in both the matchmaking and corporate world, they understand how to make smart decisions in dating and choosing the right life partner. With their track record of success in matching hundreds of couples, Cassindy and Shannon are delighted to work with you and your families.

About Us

Cassindy Chao Bierhaus

Professional Matchmaker, fintech entrepreneur, former investment banker at Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan. Cassindy is dedicated to making thoughtful connections for her clients.

Cassindy has a B.A. from Wellesley College.  She is a 2006  Marshall Memorial Fellow, and sits on the Development Board for Asian Health Services, and Board of the Wellesley Asian Alumnae Alliance.  She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband and 3 grown children.

Matchmaker Cassindy Chao

Shannon Lundgren

A Professional Matchmaker for the past decade with 20+ years corporate senior executive background at a Fortune 50 company, Shannon has the honor of connecting intellectually curious and kind singles with like-minded partners.

Shannon has a B.A in Business from UC Berkeley and an MBA from Harvard Business School. She sits on the HBS Club Board. She lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband and her tween daughter.

Matchmaker Shannon Lundgren

Our Services

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Our boutique matchmaking is customized to our client’s needs. Through our curated matches we find their needle in the haystack.

Matchmaking

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We are known for our workshops that help singles at any stage of their dating journey get the inspiration and guidance they need.

Workshops

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We give our clients the proven strategies to make a great impression on the first date so they have the chance to have a second date

Date Coaching

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Please fill out the form or contact us directly:

shannon@boutiquematchmaking.com

cassindy@boutiquematchmaking.com

(415) 326-4430

Best executive matchmakers Cassindy Chao and Shannon Lundgren.